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Parent Prep

Your last year of high school is one of the most exciting of times. Becoming a senior means being at the top of the social ladder and much more freedom. However, amidst all the excitement, you’re also faced with one of the most significant decisions of your life: where to go to college.

Most parents, whether you want them to or not, have their own opinion on the subject. Maybe they want you to stay close to home and attend a local college. Maybe they’d prefer that you leave the nest and explore the world. Perhaps they haven’t given it much thought and are leaving it all up to you! Despite the situation, there are ways to “talk college” and ensure that both you and your parents are ready.

1. Start the conversations early. It may be tempting to wait until the beginning of senior year to talk to your parents, but by then they may have already formed their own ideas about what they want you to do or where they want you to go. So start your research as early as your freshman year. This will give you a better idea about college options and will allow enough time to formulate a plan to share with your parents. Starting early will show your parents that you’re serious. It will also help them become more comfortable with your ideas and help you reach your goals. (Read more)